Step 1: Who Will Arrange the Funeral?
The person arranging the funeral will make key decisions and be responsible for payment.
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Only one individual can provide instructions to us, but we can keep other family members informed via email.
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See Who Can Arrange a Funeral? for guidance on legal responsibilities.
Step 2: Choosing Burial or Cremation
This is a personal choice influenced by beliefs, wishes, and family tradition.
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Follow any wishes left in a Will or funeral plan where possible.
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If no instructions exist, the next of kin usually decide.
Learn more about our simple, affordable Direct Cremation options.
Find out about our burial services, including Durrington Cemetery burials.
Options:
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Burial: Traditional resting place; memorial space for visiting.
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Cremation: Flexible; ashes can be kept, scattered, or interred.
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Consider cost, environmental factors, and family preferences.
Step 3: Selecting a Location for the Ceremony
The right location creates a meaningful farewell.
Traditional venues:
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Places of worship
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Crematorium or cemetery chapels
Explore local crematoria and choose the setting that feels right.
Alternative venues:
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Village halls, gardens, or family homes
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Our Intimate Attended Direct Cremation at Rounce Chapel (up to 17 people)
Practical considerations: accessibility, seating, music/readings, rituals.
Step 5: Selecting a Coffin or Casket
Your choice honours your loved one and reflects personal values.
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Traditional wooden coffins – classic and dignified
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Eco-friendly options – wicker, bamboo, cardboard
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Bespoke designs – engraved, themed finishes
Step 6: Eulogies and Readings
Words help celebrate a life, values, and legacy.
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Choose family, friends, or a celebrant to deliver tributes.
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Options: formal eulogy, favourite poems, religious readings, or book excerpts.
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Our team provides guidance on structure and delivery if needed.
Step 7: Music – A Personal Tribute
Music evokes memories and sets the tone for reflection.
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Traditional hymns, classical, or modern songs
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Played during assembly, entrance, reflection, or committal
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Options: live musicians, recorded tracks, or choir
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Suggestions available if you need inspiration
Step 8: Visual Tributes
Visuals provide a lasting, personal reflection.
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Photos, slideshows, videos, or music compilations
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Displayed on chapel screens, DVD copies available
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Our team supports compiling, editing, and selecting content
We Are Here to Help
Planning a funeral can feel overwhelming. At Rounce Funeral Services, we provide guidance, support, and reassurance every step of the way.
No obligation. Just calm, supportive advice when you need it.